Desire - Doubt = Manifestation

When using the Law of Attraction it is important to understand the art of ALLOWING. Many times people say, "I have made my requests but they aren't being answered or they aren't being answered quick enough." The problem is that these people do not fully believe in the process...they have doubts. Sometimes they even doubt that they deserve what they are asking for. And when you say I hope this comes true; the word hope is leaving room for doubt. DO NOT HOPE FOR SOMETHING - EXPECT IT!

Fully ALLOWING is the absence of doubt.

DOUBT is a negative feeling or vibe.

DESIRE is a positive feeling or vibe.

Strong DESIRE and Strong DOUBT will lead to no manifestation of your request. The negative vibe of the DOUBT dilutes the positive vibe of the DESIRE.

Strong DESIRE and Some DOUBT will lead to some manifestation of your request. Here your requests will "trickle in."

Strong DESIRE and No DOUBT will lead to instant manifestation of your request.

The speed at which you attract depends on the amount of doubt you have. The best way to remove doubt is to find proof. When you do receive your requests, let others know. Be open to having other people share their success with you. The more you hear and speak of the success of the Law of Attraction, the less doubt you will have, and the less doubt you have will lead to faster manifestations of your requests, and so on and so on.

Try this activity. Make a simple request; nothing extravagant, but something that would make you a believer. Believe you deserve what you are asking for. Believe 100% that you are fully deserving of this request. Let others know that you have made this request and you are excited about it happening. When it does happen, share it with everyone. Share it with me. In fact, when you make the request, share it with me and my readers. I believe in you! I know you can do it! I would say good luck here, but I know you don't need it. So instead I am going to pre-congratulate you on your future success!

Posted by Steve at 4/4/2008 9:02 AM
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  • 1/22/2009 8:32 AM Sanjna wrote:
    Hi,

    I liked what you wrote!

    I have one question..

    In some articles I read even if we be doubt free we get only what universe wants to give.

    Every thing has a right time to come; it comes when we are ready.

    In my case I have tried t get something. I got many thing due to LOA but one thing I am not getting ;

    Can you guide me in this regard?

    Sanjna
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    1. 1/22/2009 9:25 AM Steve wrote:
      Sanjna -

      The Universe has no choice. It ALWAYS responds to our vibrations. The "job" of the Universe is to respond to us and give us what we send out.  The only thing we can't control is when the Universe will deliver. And it is important for you not to give up hope and expectations. Once you do, then you are changing your vibes and the Universe will respond to your new vibe.

      I hope this helps. Let me know if you need further clarification.
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  • 3/11/2009 3:06 PM Wendy wrote:
    I am happily manifesting what I would like, more recently it is instantly, and I enjoy learning how to use the energy for my benefit as it works every time. My question is this. Can I manifest something that is not right for me. For example, I manifest exactly what I asked for but sometimes there is a sting in the tail, or a hard lesson to learn and I am left wondering what I did wrong. If I ask for something and dont get it, I think it was not for me and let go, yet then to get what I asked for, which makes me happy and then it hurts, or something horrible happens, leaves me wondering what I am doing wrong. Eg: My intention was to meet up with a friend, who out of blue contacted me and came to stay...he then robbed me....so whats up with that ? - Can you explain ?
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    1. 3/11/2009 8:18 PM Steve wrote:
      Wendy, as the Law of Attraction says: "I attract to my life what I give my emotional energy to; whether it is positive emotional energy or negative emotional energy."

      So what does this mean? It means you always get what you are putting emotions towards. You may not get it in the time frame you expect, but you will get it. Unless of course doubt sneaks in. If you desire to manifest something and it doesn't happen right away and you get upset, then your new vibration is that of doubt and you won't attract what you originally desired.

      As far as you example goes, I would have to know what was going on in your head, your heart, your gut, etc. before he robbed you. Once he came over, did you not like who he was at this point in his life. Did you want him to leave? Were you worried about what he might do? Think deep down to what you were really feeling...vibrating about him once he got to your place.

      Some people don't understand that they can actually attract bad things into their life (i.e., illness). But if you focus on it so much, then that is what you will attract. If you worry so much about getting ill, then you will get ill. Even if you say I don't want to get ill. The feelings and emotions you are emitting are toward the illness, and that is what you will attract.

      I hope this helps. Great question. Thank you for asking. Please feel free to follow up on this conversation.

      Steve

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  • 11/3/2009 4:27 PM Caroline wrote:
    I am in couselling but am currently trying to move on and find a job but am stuck
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    1. 11/4/2009 12:03 PM Steve wrote:
      Hi Caroline -

      Three things you can do:
      1. Start creating action plans and following through with them.
      2. If the first is difficult, contact me for your free consult to see how a coach can help you; especially a coach trained in the law of attraction.
      3. Change your wording and you will change your vibes. Don't focus on being stuck, focus on the excitement of finding that new job.

      If you want to talk I can be reached at 610-873-7767.
      If you want to email me; I can be reached at Steve@FeelGreatCoaching.com.

      Until then...
      Make it a great day!
      Coach Steve

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  • 12/22/2009 9:28 AM prashanth wrote:
    Sir I am really happy to see this article.

    I have something to manifest. My love, I am in love with one women since 1 year. we were colleagues. but as you said in article... as soon as I realized that I am in love with that women, I got doubt that , what if she will stop talking to me or she will avoid me.

    then slowly she started avoiding me. and one day she stopped talking to me. and she went to US for 2 months. in that 2 months she never replied to my mails. and I know how horrible it feels when the person you love so much will leave you alone. finally in feb she came back to india. and I praposed her any way till now she is saying that she is not intrested in me but I belive that she have felings for me but. in india you know the cast system is there which is the main cause of most love failures. what ever, but I have this strong desire, I never wished anything but I need this women in my life , I want to share my whole life with her.

    really thanks , after reading your article I got more and more confidence that I can do this.

    please suggest me how to avoid the negative feelings. most of the time I get some fear that what if she will get married to some other guy. but again I control my negative feelings and I say to my self nothing will go wrong as long as my love is true.
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    1. 12/22/2009 11:17 AM Steve wrote:
      The best way to get rid of your negative feelings is to ask yourself a simple question: "What is it that I really want?"  When you think about what you really want your thought process changes from negative to positive. You need to really focus on all of the positive things going on and avoid thinking about the negative things. Think about the times when she did speak with you and the good feelings you had then.

      It's a process. It won't happen over night. Just keep your belief that it will happen and don't doubt.

      I hope this helps.

      Coach Steve

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      1. 12/22/2009 12:11 PM prashanth wrote:
        that's really helpful. Thanks a lot.I will let you know the good news soon.
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  • 1/12/2010 7:09 AM Bulk sms wrote:
    hi! Steve,
    your article is just the wonderful one, just keep it up.

    thanks and regards to all.
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  • 1/27/2010 12:58 AM kristen wrote:
    hi steve,
    i love your article, but have a few questions. i first learned about the LOA when i watched the movie "the secret" with my mom when i was 14 years old. im now only 15, and have been trying to manifest my biggest desires. i never have doubt and always stay positive, but i feel since im so young that it cant happen for me. can age afffect the LOA, no matter how big the desire may be? also, i find myself constantly thinking about what i want.. is that a bad thing? should i stop thinking about what i want so it will manifest? thank you!!!
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    1. 1/27/2010 2:01 PM Steve wrote:
      Hi Kristin -

      First of all, I'm glad you are reading posts like this and are learning about the law of attraction. It is something you can benefit from the rest of your life.

      Second, you are not too young for this to work for you. In fact, everyone is using the law whether they know it or not.  I have stories on this blog about my step daughter using the law when she was in 6th grade (11 years old).

      The one thing you need is patience.  It will come, maybe not on your time table, but it will come.  Make sure you read some of the other posts on this blog to get more detailed information.  Try this post "Mighty Oaks Grow from Little Acorns".

      I hope this helps!
      Steve

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  • 2/11/2010 11:14 AM Meg wrote:
    I have been doing pretty well, with the whole positive outlook -- coming from years of struggling with depression and anxiety. I've wanted to reconnect with my true love for now nearly 8 years.... for a while, things would happen, VERY VERY SLOWLY -- running into him while out shopping, and meeting his parents before I knew they were his parents when I bought my first house (they lived down the street)... and other things... but every now and then, I start to get very discouraged, as I'm not with him, but my advisor always sees the same thing (and has for years, which even she thinks is unusual) --. My question is, how can I truly let go of my fear of being without him, when the longer it goes on, the harder that is for me. I know I want another chance for him and I to be together, and know that we are crazily compatible, but I'm becoming so afraid of being alone, and not having children with him, that I'm now worrying I'm teh one preventing everything. I've been struggling with this for a few years now, and the doubt it growing it seems. How do you reverse this and speed up the manifestation of your desire?
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    1. 2/11/2010 4:16 PM Steve wrote:
      Hi Meg -

      Thank you for your question.  The answer is complicated and answering in a post like this wouldn't do it justice.  What I can tell you is that when you doubt, then you push away what you desire.  You need to remove the doubt one way or another. Try focusing on the good time s you had with him and the good feelings you get when you were with him.  Focus on that and try to believe that you will be back together again.

      I hope this helps.  If not, feel free to contact me directly at Steve@FeelGreatCoaching.com.

      Coach Steve

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